MeadowTree Perspectives

Refashion & 2nd Loved 1st Friday Linkup

For July’s link-up, I was determined to have a maxi dress and came home with two style combos from Goodwill. Each style included a top and dress so that added up to four pieces. Admittedly, I came home with more but it was Senior Discount Day!

In the end, I choose the blue lace top and multi printed chiffon dress for July’s Link-up post. That left me with an extra dress and shirt that I needed to figure out what to do with. The black shirt may eventually get donated back to Goodwill but the dress kept talking to me. I knew I would never wear it by itself but really liked the fabric. Its splatter print has every color from the rainbow and reminds me of a flower garden gone wild.

Taking a cue from Michelle, my oldest daughter, who has a talent for restyling thrifty finds, I decided to try my hand at it. When all things were said and done, this really turned out to be a 100% deconstruct and reconstruct project.

Making Decisions

The front and back of this maxi were just too low for me which is why I brought home an extra shirt to wear over it. Serious action was required!

I took my big scissors and hacked away! The bodice was pretty much toast. I could use a little of it, but not much. I kept the black skirt lining and the tie in the back. I was excited about reusing the 98″ back tie.

My idea was to utilize the fabric in the skirt. I went with a kimono inspired idea and decided to play it by ear and forgo any pattern. Basically, this garment is one large rectangle in back and two narrower ones in the front. I didn’t shape the front and just let the fabric fall back into sort of a collar.

To add a little more shape, I added a casing at the waist, (used some of the black lining), inserted elastic and cut that back tie in half and used it as front ties. Feeling that side slits would lighten the piece and make it more versatile (and not look like a big bag), I left 17” side slit . For me, this one step saved the piece.

I’m not sure how I would term what I came up with. You could say it was an unstructured vest or a sleeveless duster. Whatever, it is, its not in the trend-sphere and I will probably keep it around a very long time and hope I wear it some.

The Styling

For the first look, I went casual with flats, a bright cuff and one of my favorite bags, the purple Kampala by 2 Rivers. The waist ties were easy to work out of the way and I could add one of my wide belts. This particular one I found at Salvation Army.

This piece could be a seasonal transition piece. For warmer weather, I will wear it with shorter leggings and a sleeveless shell (this one from Goodwill).

But when the weather gets a bit cooler, I will trade out the sleeveless top for my ¾ sleeve black Chi Chi layering shell. The shorter leggings will be replaced with full-length heavier leggings.

I thought it would be fun to dress it up a bit and added black patent heels (one of a few pairs of shoes I’ve found at Goodwill) and my black Alfani (pre-loved from eBay)clutch. With the silver jewelry I went with, none of my belts seem to look right so now you can see the ties.

The Nitty Gritty of Sewing

Seeing it on my dress form I got pretty upset. It looked like this shapeless sack. I decided that the answer was for the waist to come in. With that decision, I added casing around the waste in inserted 3/8″ elastic.

My sewing teacher, my Mom, always told me that the inside of a garment was just as important as the outside. So, here’s an inside view. Being chiffon, I used French seams. In my opinion, chiffon should either have french seams or encased seams.

Just hanging around. I love this fabric against a sea of nature’s greenery.

The Inspiration

I tried to make this zero waste. The garment styles that influenced me were the Kimono and its shorter version, the Haori. These two garments are 100% no waste (mine almost was).

That wraps up my first adventure with up-cycling. I don’t even know if this is true up-cycling because the new garment looks nothing like the old. This probably should be termed a fabric salvage mission. It was a good problem solving project but took longer than I expected. Have I worn it out and about? No I haven’t (I just finished it yesterday) and that will be the test. Have any of you had the urge to cut something up and refashion it? I don’t know if I will ever do it again, but glad I finally tried it.

And who knows, I may take those bodice scraps out of my wastepaper basket and try to make Cinderella a new top, then I would have a zero waste project!

Finding the Trends on the Second Hand Market

On YouTube, I follow Signe Hansen’s Use Less. Signe is Danish and has a very refined and sleek take on style. As her v-blog suggests, she gets maximum style with minimum wardrobe. Signe believes in sourcing a portion of her wardrobe from the second hand market. This past Sunday she came out with a video of Fall trends and where to find them at second hand platforms. I was amused that she likes Vestiaire because I downloaded their app on my iPhone last Spring and was falling in love with all kinds of things when, slowly, it dawned on me this was European and I would be paying a hefty shipping fee. So, I will just have to stick to The RealReal. Here’s a link to Signe’s video on what she is hunting for as far as the Fall trends on a few of her favorite second hand online shops

Use Less’s Fall Trend Video

Now to the 2nd Loved 1st Friday Linkup. For inspiration, I’m kicking it off with a collage of the wonderful slow fashion stylists that linked up last month. Our little community is growing. This month eleven bloggers linked up at least once, sometimes more that once. I now give you…

Last Months Slow Fashion Stylists from the 2nd Loved 1st Friday Linkup

To celebrate I have made a collage of the lovely ladies (no guys, but you are welcome to participate). There were 17 linkups, of which eleven participants documented that they were styling with at least one item purchased second hand.

Starting from the top left and moving clockwise, here are this month’s featured slow fashion stylists. Please go and check out these ladies. I’ve linked their blogs and Instagram accounts.

Anna of Mutton Years Style and I – her IG is anna_muttonyears
Charlotte of http://www.jtouchofstyle.com – her IG is jtouchofstyle/
Jodie of http://www.jtouchofstyle.com – her IG is jtouchofstyle/
Jacqui of Mummabstylish-her IG is mummabstylish
Maggie of Thriftshop Fashionistablog – her IG is thriftshopfashionista/
Michelle-her IG is michelle_dvm99
Penny of Frugal Fashion Shopper -her IG is frugalfashionshopper/
Trina of Tipey Heelz-her IG is tipseyheelzblogger
Jess of Elegantly Dressed and Stylish-her IG is elegantlydressedandstylish
Nicole of High Lattitude Style – her IG is highlatitudestyle/
Mary of The Pouting Pensioner -her IG is thepountingpensioner

I would like to thank everyone who participated in the linkup. To be in the collage, the link title or in the blog, you have to mention what was pre-loved, even if it’s a daughter’s piece of ribbon that was transformed into a choker. I hope to see you at the link-up tomorrow!

The link up button is now on every post that I publish to make it easy for you to link up.

That wraps it up for this week. Thank you for stopping by. I’ll have another blog bit next week. You are certainly welcome to leave a comment or two or three. I love to hear from you.

I link up with some great blogs every week. To see who they are go HERE.

Husband Michael gets credit for the photos of me and does a bit of editing from time to time.

Again, thanks for stopping by. Take care……..

Time for my usual link-up blurb!

It’s time for the August 2nd Loved 1st Friday Linkup which stays open until September 30th.

Any post on a blog, Instagram, Facebook or the like can linkup to this style celebration. If you can copy and paste the URL in the Linky box, you are good to go!

One item is quite OK—a hat, skirt, pants, shoes, purse, or a piece of jewelry. That item (or items) can be from a thrift shop, eBay, consignment shop, vintage boutique, one of the online consignment shops such as RealReal–or even something a friend gave you because they didn’t want it anymore.

When you do post, I would appreciate a description about your 2nd Loved item (or items), what type of shop you found it and what drew you to it. Tell as much or as little as you want. To be featured in my collage, which I will put on Instagram along with your links, you have to say what item is second loved. That is a “have to”.

If you have never participated in a linkup before, no fear. Go to Linkup 101 guide that is found on my 2^nd Loved 1^st Friday linkup page (also found at the top in the tab section).

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Kansas City’s Women’s Equality Week-3 Events-3 Looks

Women’s Equality Day was August 26th. This day commemorates American women finally having the right to vote. Most cities have activities limited to just the one day, but Kansas City devotes an entire week to women’s equality.

I attended three events: the Sunday opening reception held at the American Jazz Museum, Building Coalitions Through Courageous Conversations at the National Archives and finally Empowerment Through Collaboration: Facing Challenges in Women’s Creative Work.

This week’s post is about what I wore to each of these. Going to Kansas City does take time (we live an hour away). This approach seemed to be the best way to balance my time in the car and the time I needed to write.

Sunday for the Opening Reception at The American Jazz Museum

Black and Light Neutrals

My base piece for this first style is a “new to me” Mango jumpsuit which I found on Poshmark NWT. Most of this spring and summer I’ve been putting together faux jumpsuit looks. I was hoping that I would eventually find a true jumpsuit that suited me. With this Mango piece, I believe I found it. With its side invisible zipper those visits to the ladies room are pretty easy (an important consideration for me).

I am loving this year’s belt trend because belts have been one of my life long trends. The belt I wore Sunday is a White House Black Market 2 1/2 “ wide reptile embossed, patent leather with a very distinctive buckle and another Poshmark find.

Annie Hall, I miss you because I never tire of vests. Truthfully, this Chaus linen/polyester Salvation Army find was the initial inspiration for this look.

The accessories included a very old pair of Steve Madden multi textured heeled sandals (TJ Maxx), a Louie Vuitton Alma bag from The RealReal and my Carnelian and silver necklace that Michael gave me for Christmas years ago. I believe it came from The Chicago Art Institute.

Building Coalitions Through Courageous Conversations at the National Archives

Burgundy and Tan

Three years ago, on the way home from a wedding in Minnesota, Michael and I ran into a Pendleton Outlet store. This was dangerous territory! Together, we spent a nice bit of our vacation money and the dress I wore this evening was one of my finds on that day. Its simple shape and its abstract pattern appeals to me.

I didn’t do too much to accessorize the dress. My bag is a vintage Furla from eBay. I was attracted to the bag’s shape and simplicity and, at the time and knew nothing of Furla. After some research, I knew I had a good buy.

Last week, I finally noticed that my old Nine West sandals matched the Furla. These shoes were the first thing I ever pinned on Pinterest back in the spring of 2010. It had just launched as a closed beta platform and I remember having to wait for at least a week to get accepted as a member. These days, it seems that I rarely pin a thing but know that Pinterest is a great tool for inspiration style boards. Someday, I might get back to using it this way.

Earlier this Summer, I was a very lucky lady and won Ritz’s of Journospeak’s Instagram contest for a Jord watch. Made with purpleheart wood, it just blended in. Do go and visit Ritz and her wonderful blog that covers everything from life style, beauty and fashion.

There was a time when I taught knitting and spinning classes at various fiber fests around the Midwest. I crafted my necklace from stones I found at one of these festivals and I can see a small landscape in each stone.

The larger rings I used were found at JoAnne’s Fabric store. The rectangular copper beads were purchased through Fire Mountain Gems. I had to distress them with a special acidic solution to get the patina I wanted.

Empowerment Through Collaboration-Facing Challenges in Women’s Creative Work.

Sarah Nelsen, Kansas City Designer

I am saving my favorite for last. Friday night’s panel discussion was Empowerment Through Collaboration:Facing Challenges in Women’s Creative Work. The sponsors were: Women in the Arts Networking KC, Women in Design Kansas City, Kansas City Women in Film & TV and UNA Women of GKC.

The organizer and moderator of the event was our daughter, Rachelle Gardner-Roe. If you follow me on Instagram, you will know that Friday night I let loose with a live video, two regular videos and photos. For us, it was a family event because our oldest daughter was in town attending a veterinary medical conference and happily was able to come.

Both Rachelle and I are wearing Sarah Nelsen, a super talented young Kansas City designer. My top is a one of a kind created from an incredible piece of vintage chiffon that is embellished with black sequins, gold thread and multi colored irregular shapes. Verbal description cannot do this piece justice. It’s one of those things you have to see!

My “made by me” Donna Karen for Vogue super slim cut pants has been on here many times. Honestly, I am considering making a second pair. I love and wear them that much.

The black patent BCBG Generation pumps were thrifted from Goodwill.

This outfit perfectly portrays my style philosophy, which has three cornerstones: second hand market, made-by-me, and designed by Kansas City designers or companies that make a point to make their garments in the United States. No, I am not perfect following this philosophy. I occasionally purchase new merchandise made in China, Vietnam or elsewhere, but I do try to keep it to a minimum.

Rachelle’s dark blue textured Sarah Nelsen jacket is an achievement in garment engineering. The bodice curves around to form pockets. The back, which I did not think to photograph, is pleated and the pleats are stabilized by a back bottom band. I found a one piece jumpsuit (on Poshmark) to give her a sleek look. Both garments have pockets; pockets are very important for Rachelle. She was in four pocket heaven!

Rachelle With Her Panel of Creative Kansas City Women

Rachelle&Panel — The Panel From Left to Right:Consuelo Cruz-KCMO Office of Culture & Creative Services, Jennifer Lapka-Pfeifer-President and Founder of Rightfully Sewn, Rachelle Gardner-Roe-Kansas City multimedia artist and panel moderator, Annie Walsh-Producer, KCWIFT Representative, Nedra Bonds-Social Justice Textile Artist and Amy Slattery-Owner, Odimo Architecture

Daughter Michelle was practicing fashion sustainability long before me. We encourage, support and collaborate with each other on this slow fashion philosophy.

Michelle, in a full shot, showing her style that is a combination of hand sewn and 2nd Loved fashion found at various thrift shops. Michelle enjoys a layered look, usually combining a bright solid or print with basic neutral pieces spiced up with interesting accessories. That night she wore a hand sewn cardigan and skirt from her favorite sewing book, The Magic Pattern Book, and a power red thrift store tank. The thrifted scarf and belt add additional texture and color. The skirt fabric was also acquired at a thrift store. Michelle loves these gladiator sandals, purchased from DSW Shoes last summer, despite my youngest grandson declaring them “LY” (translated: Last Year). Harrison, age 14, is a bit of a shoe snob.

I am sharing, again, the link to Sarah Nelsen’s website so you can check out this talented Kansas City designer.

That wraps it up for this week. Thank you for stopping by. I’ll have another blog bit next week. You are certainly welcome to leave a comment or two or three. I love to hear from you.

I link up with some great blogs every week. To see who they are go HERE.

Husband Michael gets credit for the photos of me. He also does some editing.

Again, thanks for stopping by. Take care……..

It’s time for the August 2nd Loved 1st Friday Linkup which stays open until August 31st. The new linkup will be this Friday.

Any post on a blog, Instagram, Facebook or the like can linkup to this style celebration. If you can copy and paste the URL in the Linky box, you are good to go!

If you have never participated in a linkup before, no fear. Go to Linkup 101 guide that is found on my 2^nd Loved 1^st Friday linkup page (also found at the top in the tab section).

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#thriftedchicstylechallenge

I was busy on Instagram last week. So busy I didn’t have time to work on my blog. A few Instagram bloggers hosted a weeklong thrifted style challenge. Most of my readers know my love of slow fashion and finding fantastic second-loved pieces is very important to my style philosophy.

I’m not sure how many follow me on Instagram at @terri_meadowtree. So today’s blog is for sharing the styles that I put together last week for this thrifted style challenge. I’ll include my Instagram descriptions with the photos. I now think of my IG account as my mini blog and find it another way to reach others with similar interests. It is a rawer, less edited and more “of the moment” format.

Day #1-Monday, August 14

Day 1 of #thriftedchicstylechallenge. This is not the first time that these black and white gingham pants, picked up from Goodwill in early June, have been on Instagram. They have been a big favorite of mine this summer. They were one size too large for me and to the sewing machine they went. I originally had planned another shirt to go with them, but just this Friday night, at Salvation Army, I ran into this Apt. 9 sleeveless peplum and just knew the two would make a great pairing.

The bag, a pre-loved Eric Javits Squishee, was found on eBay last summer.

Finally, this summer I got the bug to own some Grasshopper shoes and found my new black and white Windhams on eBay.

Day #2-August 15

Day 2 of #thriftedchicstylechallenge
Summer finds me attracted to bold, eye catching prints. This mid-century influenced printed cotton skirt from Goodwill is no exception. I could have paired it with a white top, but I went with a bolder statement. I think this Style & Co shirred top, also from Goodwill, is perfect. Be assured I don’t feel like a big bumblebee.

My shoes were not thrifted. They are by Nine West and I bought them sometime during the late 80’s (yes, not a typo). I did wear a lot of yellow in the 80’s and I never had the heart to get rid of them. Wise decision, I think.

The small zippered pouch/clutch was found at TJ Maxx this past spring. With three compartments, it is perfect for cards/Money, cell phone, comb and lipstick.

The last small addition is a vintage Vera yellow and black scarf around my neck. It just seemed to suit the style of this look. The motif, which is Poodles, is a shout out to one of my favorite canines, (I have three). Vera fun fact: she and husband George started making silk scarfs using surplus WW2 parachute silk; the government had to get rid of a lot of silk and the Neuman’s took them up on it.

Day 3, August 16

Day 3 lets me show my favorite thrifted top of the summer. I have worn and worn this stretch lace top from Goodwill. The Ann Taylor Loft white cuffed flairs also from Goodwill have been work horses this season. I am starting to get a little bored with skinnies and jumped when I saw these.

Although, I like both pieces, when I paired them together and looked into the mirror, BORING, screamed at me. So I pulled out the biggest bag I have, my YSL Downtown Bag, also pre-loved and from Yoogi’s closet. The luxury resale market is pretty popular right now, and certainly the only avenue I go down when I want like LV, YSL and lately Judith Lieber.

This look needed another pop of color, which was solved by tying one of my Elaine Gold vintage scarfs to the YSL bag. I finished off with Franco Sarto’s summer suede espadrilles and various silver and blue jewelry.

Day #4, August 17

I remember telling you that I was soooooo bored with skinny jeans! What do I have the next day but my favorite thrifted item of the year? Of course, a pair of jeans labeled “All Most Famous” from Goodwill.

When I tried these on, I really thought they qualified as one of the craziest things I have ever gotten but was so smitten with them, I brought them home anyway. I remember telling Michelle that they looked like I had taught art in them for thirty years. I have so much fun with these, especially playing up contrasts such as with lace and in this case satin and sequins kitten heels.

My top is Mossimo and came from Savers. It has some design ribbon play on the front but it’s the back that is so different for me. I included a second photo today just to show the back.

Two items for today’s style is pre-loved from eBay and they are my Stella and Dot black and gold tasseled necklace and the my gold leather bag which is a Fatto a Mano by Carlos Flachi.

Finally, everyone in my family knows of my love for my bags and shoes. My sister thrifted these satin and sequin Nina’s in Florida and sent them to me. She knew I would love them and she was so right!

Day #5, August 18

Day 5 of #thriftedchicstylechallenge.
Has everyone had fun with the Thrifted Chic Style Challenge? This has been my first time participating and I have had a blast!

I have saved my best deal of the summer for last and is something that I feel is a great transition piece to go from late summer to early fall. I picked up this 100% silk Kasper jacket at Salvation Army on a day it was at a 50% discount, which came to $2.50.
At first glance, you would think it is a cheetah print, but it’s not. I’ve included a second photo to show its interesting graphic. It seems to me as if it is brown and tan rock formations peeking through irregular holes on a black foreground.

My flared cropped pants, by The Limited, were bought new from TJ Maxx around 2004. I decided they were worth keeping around and they have gotten to come out and play this summer.

My bag is another of my pre-loved Eric Javits collection from eBay. Rarely do I find shoes at the brick and mortar resale market but my Nine West cheetah patent leathers were the exception. Unfortunately, they never show up well in a photo. Lastly, my Chico multi strand necklace was found earlier this summer at Goodwill.

That is my five day Thrifted Challenge roundup. I always ended each post with a shout out to the fabulous and boutiques who sponsored it.

I had a great time participating in the challenge and I will end my article today as I did last week on Instagram.

A big thank you to our hosts @chele_clark, @jtouchofstyle, @pixieandcurls, @the brown closet and the sponsors @farmhousechic and @hellofancyboutique
This is the last day (sad face) and I hope everyone had fun as I did.
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That wraps it up for this week. Thank you for stopping by. I’ll have another blog bit next week. You are certainly welcome to leave a comment or two or three. I love to hear from you.

I link up with some great blogs every week. To see who they are go HERE.

Husband Michael gets credit for the photos of me.

Again, thanks for stopping by. Take care……..

It’s time for the August 2nd Loved 1st Friday Linkup which stays open until August 31st.

Any post on a blog, Instagram, Facebook or the like can linkup to this style celebration. If you can copy and paste the URL in the Linky box, you are good to go!

If you have never participated in a linkup before, no fear. Go to Linkup 101 guide that is found on my 2^nd Loved 1^st Friday linkup page (also found at the top in the tab section).

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Turquoise, Coral and Orange For Summer Style

Turquoise, coral, orange with a little brown and golden tan: these colors evoke clear skies, desert, sun and heat. Add a bit of turquoise jewelry and I feel an American southwestern vibe. This look wasn’t instant but fell together one element at a time.

The Dress

The Rachel Kate lined chiffon dress is from a friend’s boutique (unfortunately the shop no longer exists). I’m not sure why I grabbed this off her last chance clearance rack. The dress is made in the USA and maybe that influenced me. Anyway, the chevron stripped purchase languished in the back of my closet for quite a while. Honestly, I think I forgot about it.

The Necklace

Ever so often I go window-shopping for Stella and Dot jewelry on eBay. While quickly scrolling offerings, this Cortez Turquoise necklace popped up on my feed. My mouse came to a screeching halt.

I’ve always admired turquoise jewelry from the American southwest. I know the Cortez is not genuine turquoise but its coloring paired with the suede lace ties and wooden rings created such a nice look. And I could see how the suede ties allows me decide how high or low my neckline can be. So the necklace hopped into my cart without much effort.

This is a versatile necklace but I didn’t think about teaming it with my chevron dress until last week. In the end, they make a great pairing.

Putting It Together

After figuring out that the Cortez and my dress looked fantastic together, things just came together. I had a pair of turquoise, fabric and cork sandals by Italian Shoemakers. Rachelle, my youngest had found them at DSW, but never never figured out a way to style them and was going to give them away. I begged her to let me play around with them for a bit.

They don’t match perfectly, but they are way down on my feet and my dress is a little above my knees so there’s enough space for it not to matter.

The Cool Sunnies

I have to throw in the sunglasses for show and tell. By Freyrs Eyewear, if you look closely, the lens are partially detached for the pink frames, such a creative approach.

I actually won my sunnies in a raffle at Lillian’s, a locally owned chic boutique in the Northland. That’s Kansas City speak for north of the Missouri River. Angie, the owner of Lillian’s graciously invited a few of Kansas City area bloggers and their friends to her boutique for a wonderful evening of socializing and networking.

The Chevron

The Chevron is an inverted triangle and has been around a few thousand years. The chevron first showed up around 1800 B.C. in cave paintings, made it way onto medieval heraldry and, of course, is an important indicator of military ranks.

Then there is the Italian design house of Missoni, who has firmly planted the Chevron in the modern design iconography. Google “chevron printed fashion” and see the thousands of images that pop up.

Inspiring Color Moods

Color combinations can inspire different moods, cultures and regions. In the beginning, I mentioned how today’s color palette reminded of the American Southwest. During my research, these colors also popped up in the Eastern culture.

I found so many beautiful photos and objects, I was inspired to create two mood boards for turquoise, orange and brown.

That wraps it up for this week. Thank you for stopping by. I’ll have another blog bit next week. You are certainly welcome to leave a comment or two or three. I love to hear from you.

I link up with some great blogs every week. To see who they are go HERE.

Husband Michael gets credit for the photos of me. He also does some editing; if a male-type person can understand this stuff, then it may not completely be gibberish.

Again, thanks for stopping by. Take care……..

It’s time for the August 2nd Loved 1st Friday Linkup which stays open until August 31st.

Any post on a blog, Instagram, Facebook or the like can linkup to this style celebration. If you can copy and paste the URL in the Linky box, you are good to go!

If you have never participated in a linkup before, no fear. Go to Linkup 101 guide that is found on my 2^nd Loved 1^st Friday linkup page (also found at the top in the tab section).

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The LBD-2nd Loved 1st Friday Linkup

Everyone needs a black dress. Of my top ten of things to have in my closet, the LBD is number one. If you have just one LBD, it should be simple and preferably sleeveless because a sleeveless dress is more versatile.

I took my little black dress and restyled it four ways using accessories: bags, scarfs, belts and jewelry. The LBD I am using for my base today was not bought on the second hand market. Five years ago, this September, I went to Macy’s with a mission; to find the perfect dress to wear to the Kansas City Symphony.

My Calvin Klein dress is fitted with a waist and and was around $100. This dress has been worn so much; it was well worth the investment. I’ve collected other black dresses during the past years (even another Calvin Klein on clearance at Macy’s), but this one is the workhorse.

Even though my dress isn’t 2^nd Loved, the majority my accessories are and I will tell you when they aren’t. Some of the first things I case out at thrift, consignment, and vintage shops are the scarfs, belts and jewelry. I rarely find shoes, but there’s a few here today that I have scored. Bags are never on my thrift radar mainly because I only collect certain vintage bags from a small group of makers.

Walk on the Wild Side

I am fond of animal prints. However, I use them in small doses. For this look, I added a newly thrifted leopard/cheetah printed belt (Goodwill), Nine West patent leather leopard/cheetah kitten heels (new from Goodwill), and a very large leopard/cheetah/lace printed scarf (Goodwill). A scarf this large is great for throwing over your shoulders if you get a little cool on a summer night and it just looks great, so I grab it a lot.

The bag is an Eric Javits, one of the designers I collect. I did find it second hand on eBay.

I like using tortoiseshell with leopard/cheetah prints and paired my largest chunkiest tortoiseshell necklace. This was bought new at a sewing convention. I’m not enamored with its quality but, at the time, the price was right.

Pearls and Bling

I’m taking my LBD up the elegance notch a bit with this next look. Adding cool greys, pearls and rhinestones never fails. I would wear this to the symphony on a Saturday night.

Do you like statement necklaces? I certainly do and enjoy wearing Stella and Dot. This is the Isadora Pearl Bib necklace and one of their retired pieces. Up to this point, I’ve used eBay to find Stella and Dot jewelry. These pieces are second hand but many of them were samples and never worn. I was checking Poshmark the other day, and see that they also have quite a few Stella and Dot listings.

My black pumps are Manolo Blahnik from eBay. I’ve worn them for seven years and they still look pretty good. Their Austrian crystal bling is courtesy of Frilly Feet. Held in place by strong magnets, I can pop these little wonders on and off.

This is also the time to add a special small bag. My bag which borders on an art piece is by Anthony Luciano. This American designer even makes his bags in NYC. There aren’t very many second hand Luciano’s out there and I jump at one when it’s in my price range. The fact that I don’t see many makes me think that ladies hang on to his bags. And why not, they are timeless and gorgeous.

I made my shrug from a Vogue pattern about six years ago. The fabric is chiffon and I wear it with various sleeveless dresses or tops.

Trending Red

Adding a jacket adds seasons to your sleeveless LBD. Knowing red is going to be a very big trend this fall and winter, I wanted to play with my red silk Juliana Collezione (eBay). For a couple of years, I collected JC but I’m done at this point and ready to move on. The quality of these items is excellent, but I have enough of them.

My suede Nickols pumps are thrifted, but not by me. My daughter, Michelle, found these (maybe DAV?) in Joplin and bought them because she just thought I would love them.

I finished the look off with black patent leather belt from Goodwill. The belt was found the same day as my cheetah printed belt. This July was a good month for belts! When I decided I needed a black patent leather clutch last year, this Alfani was picked up on eBay.

Between the red silk and black patent, I decided I didn’t want jewelry. But on second thought, I wonder what a pin on the lapel would look like?

powerRed — Say hello to Millie. I adopted Millie, a breeder, when she was ten. Millie doesn’t like to let me out of her sight, what sight she has, since she can only see in one eye and is totally deaf. However, she always seems to know where I am. Usually, these dogs have a terrible time adjusting to normal life, but this old girl just shone. Except for her obvious physical disabilities, this girl acts as if life has always been a bowl of cherries. In my pet blogging days, I wrote a few posts on Millie, one of my favorites is HERE

Check out the back of this jacket. Between the textured silk and lattice back, I knew it needed to be with me.

Just a Simple Silk Scarf

I’m ending with a simple look. This look gives a better view of my black patent leather belt, which has a plastic buckle center focal piece.

My 32 “ square dusty powder blue Vera silk scarf is unique because Vera Neumann was known for patterns. But this color was perfect and I could tell the silk was thick and luxurious. I have a small collection of Vera scarfs and this is the only solid in the bunch.

With my blue Vera scarf, I added my favorite Rodo vintage bag. This was one hard eBay auction because I wasn’t the only one who saw it as being pretty special. I remember this auction because I was out with girlfriends for dinner. The auction’s end came just when we were finished and everyone was headed for the car. I couldn’t leave the restaurant because I needed this bag. My friend Diane stayed with we to cheer me on and after I won, only then did we go to the car. That is a true friend!

The neutral patent leather pumps were new from TJ Maxx.

You probably can tell by now that I believe in accessories and love the hunt for them. They can come from all corners of the fashion universe: main stream designers, local Kansas City designers, vintage shops, consignment shops, eBay, Poshmark, The RealReal and thrift stores. If it is something that appeals to me and fits into my style, I don’t care where it comes from.

If you don’t have your little black dress yet, I would go get one or two or three. The LBDs will be one of the biggest workhorses in your wardrobe.

Now to the 2nd Loved 1st Friday Linkup. For inspiration, I’m kicking it off with a collage of the wonderful slow fashion stylists that linked up. A lot of these ladies linked up more than once and that was great. I now give you…

Last Months Slow Fashion Stylists from the 2nd Loved 1st Friday Linkup

To celebrate I have made a collage of the lovely ladies (no guys, but you are welcome to participate). There were 19 linkups, of which eight contributors who documented that they were styling with at least one item purchased second hand. Participation doubled and I am ecstatic. The link up button is now on every post that I publish to make it easy for you to link up but you do have to do it on my blog. I am sure you are already following these slow fashion stylists but in case you have missed Starting from the top left and moving clockwise, here are this month’s featured slow fashion stylists: slow fashion:

Jodie of http://www.jtouchofstyle.com and her IG is https://www.instagram.com/jtouchofstyle/ (actually, that is Jodie’s Mom in the collage)
Kate of https://timetravelwithkatekitsch.wordpress.com and her IG is https://www.instagram.com/kateskitsch/
Maggie of https://thriftshopfashionistablog.wordpress.com and her IG is https://www.instagram.com/thriftshopfashionista/
Sally of https://spicyphilosophy.net
Penny of http://frugalfashionshopper.co.uk and her IG is https://www.instagram.com/frugalfashionshopper/
Michelle and her IG is https://www.instagram.com/chele_clark/
Nicole of https://highlatitudestyle.com and her IG is https://www.instagram.com/highlatitudestyle/
Rachelle of https://gardner-roe.com/rachelle_river-market-regional-exhibition/ and her IG is https://www.instagram.com/rachellegardnerroe/?hl=en

And for the next two weeks Rachelle is curating the IG account of https://www.instagram.com/artskc/?hl=en

That wraps it up for this week. Thank you for stopping by. I’ll have another blog bit next week. You are certainly welcome to leave a comment or two or three. I love to hear from you.

I link up with some great blogs every week. To see who they are go HERE.

Husband Michael gets credit for the photos of me.

Again, thanks for stopping by. Take care……..

It’s time for the August 2nd Loved 1st Friday Linkup which stays open until August 31st.

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The Kampala: A Well Connected Bag

A bag can be utilitarian, a status symbol, the “it” item of the year, a work of art, a connection to someone or the past….I am sure I’m leaving something out.

And of course, bags are just things. They do not live, breathe or have a heart and soul. But some bags can connect us with those who do.

ByStatue — My *Kampala* and I not disturbing the “Sleeping Child”, a Plaza landmark in Kansas City, Missouri. This look features plaid linen pants (made by me), an Avöru top, a Lilly Dawson necklace and some very old Clark sandals with a thrifted reptile printed belt.

My purple Kampala bag by 2 Rivers Africa does that for me. It connects to craftspeople in the Great Rift Valley in Western Kenya. This bag provides income and a chance to build skills in a valuable craft for women and men in the Great Rift Valley.

I was asked by 2 Rivers Africa if I would be interested in putting one of their bags through its paces and see what I think. This is my review and honest opinion.

The Kampala is a large and roomy leather Satchel that comes in orange, red, purple, light brown and dark brown. Dimensions are: Height: 12.25”; Depth (front to back): 7.5”; Handle drop: 7.5”. The Kampala’s brass hardware is sturdy and includes two snaps on each side that lets you expand it into a tote bag. There is also a snap at the top to help keep it closed. The addition of a beaded and fringed leather tassel is a nice touch.

The interior is fully lined and has a large zippered pocket and two fabric pockets, one on each side. The interior pockets are a lovely abstract pattern of dyed blue and purple.

CityMarket — My *Kampala* and I at the City Marker after attending the June 2017, Kansas Artist’s Coalition’s River Market Regional Exhibition. We were just about to go and eat at The Farmhouse Restaurant when Michael snapped this. Included in my style are a thrifted patent leather belt, cropped black pants that I bought in the early 2000’s, an Alfani cotton shell (Macy’s), and thrifted Liz Claibourn patterned pumps.

2 Rivers Africa sends a tote bag to keep the Kampala dust free. The added tote bag is pretty cool and even has a leather label and very neat logo. However, for the Kampala the tote bag is a tight fit. I think the tote may be fine for the other bags in 2 Rivers Africa’s line, but I will probably make another tote-type dust bag to house my bag.

My *Kampala* works just fine with a laid back country style. This look includes a Sun N’ Surf hat with a vintage silk Poodle scarf tied on for the band, thrifted distress jeans, thrifted lace navy top, and Candie flats from Kohls.

I am very happy with my choice of purple. This particular purple is very soft and pairs well with grey, black, and denim. I’ve felt quite comfortable carrying it in different settings and occasions. Versatile and classic, for me the Kampala seems to easily work in styles ranging from business formal, casual, to dressed down.

RSewnTour — Touring the Rightfully Sewn program (more about that at a later date) at Paseo Academy of Fine and Performing Arts. This time with my black Alvöru top, white DKNY jeans, the Clark sandals. I’m afraid I covered up the tassel with my own creation, a shibori silk scarf.

2 Rivers Africa’s Story

2 Rivers Africa’s name is taken from my hometown, Kansas City, where the Kansas and Missouri rivers meet. Via email, Christopher Varady co-founder of 2 Rivers informed me: “Kansas City’s geography echoes the Great Rift Valley in East Africa from where our products originate. Its residents also echo the products in that they value natural materials, craft and talent, handmade details, and high quality products at a reasonable price. These shared values form the foundation of our company’s mission.”

2 Rivers Africa’s leather gets it start on small Kenyan family farms raising native Rift Valley cattle. This appeals to me because we also have a small family farm (and raise a heritage breed of cattle, Red Poll). Traditions and ways of life of the farmers in the Rift Valley are respected and this includes using the entire animal, and ensuring that no part is wasted. 2 Rivers Africa aspires to pay the framers promptly and fairly.

cattle-belonging-to-the-samburu-tribe-outside-their-village-in-northern-ap0h0a — **Native Rift Valley Cattle**

2 Rivers Africa attempt to minimize their environmental impact. Their tanneries comply with international standards to reduce chemicals in production and only use packaging materials that are reusable.

19787083_1921318674775523_2571402868305080051_o — **2 River Africa’s atelier on the outskirts of Nairobi**

2 Rivers Africa value and respect the craft, skills, and ability of the laborers and craftspeople that create their products. They promote the work of women in all steps of the production and young people in building their skills and careers and ensure a fair and just working environment, fair market wages, and safety on the job.

2 Rivers Africa is committed to support healthier and more prosperous communities. They donate 5% of its profits to organizations in the Rift Valley who share this vision.

Not Just Bags

2 Rivers makes more than just women’s bags. I counted sixteen different items that they currently make, ranging from wallets, makeup bags, messenger bags, gym bags and iPad cases. I hope you check it out for yourself. Hmm….that Masai wallet seems simple and sleek…and my iPad cover is falling apart….

Products — **Readers can get a 5% discount (see below).**

2 Rivers Africa’s leather is “unfinished”. Unfinished leathers don’t have a resin coating to make them water and stain proof. Unfinished leather is soft and natural-looking and can develop a beautiful patina with age but you must take care of it. With care, your unfinished leather can last a lifetime and become more beautiful with age.

It’s possible that I spend a little more time working on leather than most. I buy a lot of vintage bags and sometimes they need extra TLC. I’ll include a few leather care tips that may also be used with shoes and boots.

Caring For Your Leather Bag

Keep your bag in in a dust bag. Usually, better bags come with their own dust bags. But sometimes, second hand bags have lost theirs and you can make one by sewing rectangles of cloth together or improvise with a pillowcase.
Stuff your bag with bubble wrap and white tissue paper so it will hold its shape in storage. Don’t use printed newsprint because the ink may rub off on the interior of your bag.
Occasionally dust and buff your bag with white cotton, flannel cloth. I use a 12 ounce Canton flannel shine cloth made for shining shoes. It’s soft, thick and may be folded to whatever size one needs.
If you feel that your leather needs cleaning, only use special leather cleaning products. Household chemicals and cleaners should not be used. Please use only high quality cleaners, designed specifically for leather.
Once leather has been cleaned, it is important to keep it conditioned. Conditioning the leather keeps it soft, supple, and reduces the risks of the leather cracking. First dab the leather conditioner to a soft cloth, and then apply evenly over the surface of the bag. Once a year should be enough.
Don’t carry your item made with unfinished leather when it is raining. If you did get water on your bag, just let it dry naturally and don’t use a damp cloth on the unfinished leather.
Most bags come with packets of Silica Gel. I leave the packets in the bags when not in use for just a little more preventive care against excess moisture.

There are so many different leather care products out there. From experience, I like Angelus leather products (links below).

Important Links For This Story

2 Rivers Africa online

2 Rivers Africa Facebook

2 Rivers Africa Instagram

Shoe Care Supplies (for all leather)

Angelus products on eBay

My Readers can have a discount on 2 Rivers Africa’s products.

I have discount code that will get you a 5% discount for any item on the 2 Rivers Africa’s shop. Enter the code MOF0105 at checkout.

That wraps it up for this week. Thank you for stopping by. I’ll have another blog bit next week. You are certainly welcome to leave a comment or two or three. I love to hear from you.

I link up with some great blogs every week. To see who they are go HERE.

Husband Michael gets credit for the photos of me. He also does some editing; if a male-type person can understand this stuff, then it may not completely be gibberish.

Again, thanks for stopping by. Take care……..

And don’t forget, the July 2nd Loved 1st Friday Linkup goes on until August 3rd.

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My Sew Sew Life-Something New in Bamboo + Cydney Ross

I had trouble coming up with an opening for this post. That doesn’t surprise since, until recently, I had a creative block on what to do with this gorgeous piece of bamboo fabric. For over six years, this fabric was in my stash.

When I first saw this coral woven bamboo at a Sew Expo, I was amazed that bamboo could be turned into fabric. Furthermore, it was soft, had a gorgeous sheen, and draped beautifully. My mind’s eye saw a hazy image of a gorgeous garment. Over the years, a few patterns were garnered, but I kept hesitating to actually cut this lovely cloth.

What pushed me over the creative ledge was a simple bar necklace of white porcelain with gold luster by Cydney Ross. Somehow the paths of my bamboo fabric and necklace crossed in my workroom. I thought they looked great together. Somehow I had to find a style that played with this match.

Looking through my pattern files, I found a Simplicity pattern that I picked up for 99¢ years ago. Simplicity describes it as a tunic. Whatever it is, I think it’s pretty much off the fashion compass. It’s not on or off trend; it’s just a statement and I love wearing it.

simplicity-sportswear-pattern-8094-envelope-front — I really like view E too, that high low top would be an eye catcher.

Simplicity 8094 is truly a beginner’s pattern, almost like sewing two rectangles together.

To complete the look, I just went simple: a vintage acrylic cuff, white ring, white laser cut Rebecca Minkoff MAC bag and some very old Bare Traps white sandals, not worn in probably ten years. Also, I had a pair of white cotton leggings from Dharma Trading Company that I had never gotten around to dying any color. Now they will just stay white!

PatioParty — This look was perfect for those June Patio Parties.

Simplicity 8094 has its own video.

Bamboo Sustainability: The Good & Not So Good.

In several ways, bamboo looks pretty good. It grows quickly, doesn’t need fertilizer, and regenerates from its own roots. Compared to cotton, bamboo needs much less water. Compared to wool, well, you don’t have to feed any critters. But here’s the negative: to make bamboo into soft fabric, things get sticky-wicky. The chemicals involved are very toxic and carry health risks. At least 50% of the process is hazardous waste that has to be put somewhere. The end result doesn’t seem very sustainable. As things stand now, I will do some serious thinking before I use bamboo again.

However, there may be changes coming that leave bamboo fabric soft and the environment reasonably unharmed. From the Good On You website: “…a similar fabric [to bamboo] called lyocell (also known by the brand name TENCEL®) uses a closed-loop process to recapture and reuse 99% of the chemical solution. Tencel® is often made from sustainable farmed eucalyptus trees, and the fabric was awarded the ‘European Award for the Environment’ by the European Union. The lyocell process can also be used to create fabric from bamboo. There are very few brands doing this now but there are new innovations getting close to production – watch…for products made using Monocel.”

If you have any garment’s made from Tencel® or Monocel, kudos to you.

The Painted Accessory

I haven’t included a polish review in awhile but I had several nice questions about my nails when wearing this color. It is Pony, a neon pastel peach by Floss Gloss. Floss Gloss colors run $8 + shipping or you can go to Amazon for a price of $10.

That wraps it up for this week. Thank you for stopping by. I’ll have another blog bit next week. You are certainly welcome to leave a comment or two or three. I love to hear from you.

I link up with some great blogs every week. To see who they are go HERE.

Husband Michael gets credit for the fantabulous photos today (he also does some editing; if a man can understand this stuff, then it’s probably not complete gibberish).

Again, thanks for stopping by. Take care……..

And don’t forget, the July 2nd Loved 1st Friday Linkup goes on all month!

Any post on a blog, Instagram, Facebook or the like can linkup to this style celebration. If you can copy and paste the URL in the Linky box, you are good to go!

If you have never participated in a linkup before, no fear. Go to Linkup 101 guide that is found on my 2^nd Loved 1^st Friday linkup page (also found at the top in the tab section).

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Alvörue-Helping Hot Women Become Cooler

Feeling the heat? Where I live, at the moment the temperatures are around 90-95 F. But ladies, we know that some of us feel the heat day, night and it doesn’t matter what the temperature is outside. There is now a clothing line designed just for you and even better, it is sewn here in the USA.

Alvöru’s founder, Chief Cooling Officer Jeanette Knittel, has developed tops, bottoms and bedding using NASA technology. Her mission is to help hot women become cool. Below, I am wearing her Sleeveless Ruffled Top.

: Baby, it’s hot outside. I’m keeping cool with my Alvöru.

Jeanette’s mission started ten years ago. Tired of waking up in the middle of the night in what seem to be a pool of water, she knew there had to be a better way. Shopping for garments with wicking properties became frustrating. She decided to start her own brand.

AlvCollage — Keeping Hot Women Cool-Some Alvöru Tips

Research led Jeanette to Outlast^® . Originally developed for NASA, this remarkable fiber proactively manages heat and cold for optimal thermal comfort. When you are hot, Outlast® will help you to stay cooler. When cold, it will keep you warmer. If interested in the science behind how Outlast® can regulate body temperatures, click HERE.

sittingAvo — **Cool and relaxed with Alvöru along with my thrifted skirt, belt and necklace, Rodo vintage wicker bag, and very old Clark’s sandals.**

Having a great idea and turning it into a viable business is not easy. Ten years passed from the idea to the first prototype. The work and research Jeanette has gone through impressed me. Clearly she is a dedicated women on a mission.

2011 was a pivotal year in Jeanette’s dream. She enrolled and went through the Kaufman Foundations’s three month long FastTrac program which helps entrepreneurs develop tools to realize dreams.

JustTheThreeofUs — Attending a gallery while pairing the Alvöru top with a silver-linked belt (accompanied by happy daughter and reluctant grandson–he survived).

Next came the Block Business School’s nine month long Entrepreneurs’ Scholar Program through the University of Missouri at Kansas City. It was through this program that Jeanette did intensive research and developed her business plan. This included manufacturing in the US of A. Jeanette recently transferred the making her products from Texas to Kansas City with the KC Sewing Company founded by Laura Tres.

Now the women of the world have Alvöru: a business dedicated to our needs and our bodies’ well being.

groupshotKemper — Another view, showing how the two pieces create a sleek one piece look.

The Sale

Jeanette has decided to have a ½ price sale of some of her earlier stock. One item on sale is the top I am wearing in this post. I picked it up at her Mother’s Day sale for 40% off so this is an even better deal! For her online shop, click HERE .

mainslider_img_1 — As a way to reduce my inventory of samples to make way for new designs and changes to some of the original designs, I’m offering **50% OFF** on the scoop neck tank, sleeveless ruffle, 3/4 sleeve and simple long sleeve top while supplies last. When shopping for these, use code **LOTTERY** for the **50% SAVINGS**. Because of the discount, all sales are final.

I think Jeanette has created an amazing product. She is truly a Fierce 50 woman on a mission and now you can try one of her tops for 50% off of regular price.

JeanetteandI — Chief Cooling Officer Jeanette Knittel standing with me. With my **Alvöru** top this time are linen trousers (made by me), snake patterned belt & bracelet (Stella & Dot), and my Lily Dawson multi-sized chain necklace. Oh, and one awesome bag by 2Rivers. You may be seeing a bit about this bag in the future.

I might admit that I didn’t experience what million of women have worldwide. I never had one hot flash or a single night sweat. However, I am the only woman in my family that escaped this misery. During the time I was going through the change, I was getting my Masters in Education and maybe my body decided that was enough stress…that’s what I tell myself.

Having worn my Alvöru top on some of our hottest summer days, I’ve felt like the proverbial cucumber: cool. Another plus, Jeanette encourages input from her customers. Just last week on Alvöru’s Facebook page, she asked which new sleepwear prototype we liked the best. This is a lady who actively listens.

Links For This Post

Alvöru-online shop

Alvöru’s Facebook page

Alvöru’s Instagram

Kaufman Foundation

KC Sewing Company

And a little extra for my readers

Readers can get 10% of any regular priced item. Just use the code MTS10. This code will be in effect for one month. Jeanette always sends a fan with each order to help you stay even more cool!

You are certainly welcome to leave me a comment or two…or three.

I also link up with some great blogs every week. To see who they are go HERE.

Husband Michael, daughter Rachelle and FGI member Jacquie (thanks Jacquie) get credit for the photos today,

Thank you for stopping by. Take care……..

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Lunch & Networking

My very nice financial advisor, Paige, sent me an invitation earlier this spring for a women only networking luncheon. Unbeknownst to me, Paige followed my style blog and thought this event would be a perfect fit for me.

Oh, she was right. Sponsored by Edward Jones, about seventy-five of us met at the Brio Tuscan Grille on the Kansas City Plaza. With lunch came a presentation by networking specialist Alana Muller along with a copy of Alana’s book, The Practical Field Guide For Master Networking–plus a bottle of Kate Spade’s Walking on Air perfume.

I had such a good time visiting with interesting people that I forgot to take pictures!

Alana’s presentation and the visiting afterwards inspired me to do more of what I’ve only just barely started.

As a teacher for thirty years in the same building–walking the same halls, teaching the children of children that I had taught in years’ past–networking and collaboration happened all the time. Everyone knew who I was. After a while, it seemed I came with the building.

Then came retirement and this adventure of style/fashion blogging. Admittedly, I could sit here on my farm, style outfits, blog away, and life would not change much. However, I’ve wanted to be a little more involved in the larger world and try to make some contribution to the Kansas City fashion community.

I’ve thought about why that is so important to me. Probably, it has something to do with being “always a teacher.” Plus I’ve long been interested in the history of the garment industry in Kansas City. I know that through grass-root groups, efforts are being made to revive some of the stature and creativity.

These efforts intrigued me and I wanted to help, even if it was small. There was one problem: I didn’t know a soul in the Kansas City fashion design community.

In her book, Alana suggests three questions to judge if you are well-networked:

Do you know many people in my own city, industry and/or interest groups?
Do those people know you too?
Do you find it easy to meet new people, gather information and seek to connect with others?

09039-jennifer — I didn’t take photos of our networking luncheon so went through my files and came up with some photos that I just like. This was taken a year ago last spring at when I just walked in to find out about the non-profit Rightfully Sewn. In the center is Jennifer Lapka Pfeifer.

My answers would be no, especially on point three. I had never needed to know anyone outside my own sphere of education. Further, it was somewhat uncomfortable for me to walk into a large room and not know anyone.

However, on March 12^th, 2016 (and terribly under-dressed, I might add) that is what I did. I attended a Kansas City Fashion Week charity event for Rightfully Sewn. Fortunately, Jennifer Lapka Pfeifer, the force behind Rightfully Sewn greeted me. Jennifer demonstrated perfect networking skills. She was gracious, kind, and could deliver a concise, clear message about her organization. I came home with only two contacts that night, but that was a start.

2d4e4-studioshot — Again, last spring-the open studio event of my two of my favorite Kansas City ladies: milliner, Amina Wyrick Hood and weaver Debbie Barrett Jones.

Networking will probably always be hard for me, but Alana Muller’s lunch/workshop was encouraging. Also, on our tables were flyers with some great tips on how to network, which I want to share. Alana states that these tips are from her friend and mentor Eric Morgenstern, President and CEO of Morningstar Communications.

Name tag on the right
Restate their name
Share/Get
“Questions are the Creative Acts of Intelligence.”-Albert Einstein
The Early Bird Catches the Connections
Stand by the Food/Bar
Think Quality vs. Quantity
Write on the Business Cards
It’s Not Who You Know…It’s Who Knows You
Don’t say “Fine”

Another useful tool, and one that Jennifer aptly know how to do, is to have a thirty second “elevator speech”. To quote Alana’s book, “Create a succinct description of who you are, your background, strengths and objectives. Include just enough to intrigue the other party-their continued interest and follow up questions will let you know whether you have done a good job of presenting yourself.”

I am working on that one.

19059782_10155445556487560_7473574075740152479_n — In May, I was able to attend the monthly networking event for the Fashion Group International-Kansas City’s Resources and Referrals. It just stirs the creative juices for designers, stylists, bloggers, makeup and hair artists to connect. Yours truly is in the very back. Photo courteously of FGI-KC.

19105935_10155445556517560_4404984404221764919_n — Sometimes just visiting a bit leads to collaborations. Very soon I will be writing about the ingenuity of Jeanette Knitel of Alvorue (Helping Hot Women Become Cooler). Photo courteously of FGI-KC

19399280_10158893423985597_5797689470232718283_n — This pic is from the Women to Watch event in June, 2017 at the Kemper Museum of Modern Art in Kansas City. I’ve found that once I forget to be self-conscious, it really is a lot of fun to visit with creative type people!

With my abilities and interests, I’ve been wanting to make a difference. Alana Muller’s workshop and her book, The Practical Field Guide For Master Networking, were most encouraging to me. Especially if you are not comfortable about networking, I would like to hear back from some of you on some of your experiences. If you are a blogger, have you ever needed to network to promote your blog?

FullSizeRender-2 — OK, for the Women to Watch event, daughter Rachelle and I were escorted by our handsome grandson, William. He survived……..

Links to Places and Things Mentioned in This Story

Alana Muller

A Practical Field Guide For Master Networking by Alana Muller

Brio Tuscan Grill, Kansas City

Edward Jones, Financial Advisors

Paige Fowler, (my Edward Jones financial advisor in the Waldo area of Kansas City)

This was an extra post and the usual Sunday fashion post will publish at its usual time.

In the mean time, thank you for reading this and take care.

And don’t forget, the July 2nd Loved 1st Friday Linkup goes on all month!

Any post on a blog, Instagram, Facebook or the like can linkup to this style celebration. If you can copy and paste the URL in the Linky box, you are good to go!

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Romance & Lace 2nd Loved 1st Friday #4

Lace and romance is my theme for 2nd Loved First Friday #4. This look is the result of an absolute blast I had on Senior Citizen discount day at Goodwill. I went with the idea of finding a something maxi.

A chiffon sundress caught my eye. I have never been too much into flower prints. But put about thirty prints together in one piece……well, I guess that’s a different thing altogether. Paired with a navy top..hmm, this might have possibilities. Naturally I found two interesting tops. Normally, I would choose just one. But with a 25% discount, they both came home!

It’s a bit of a different look for me but that is what I like about thrifting: I step out of my comfort zone and try different ideas. I never thought I would have so much fun wearing something like this. It’s so easy to twirl in and I have to add, Michael loves me in this.

I finished the basic look with a pink silk jacquard scarf that I found years ago at a Florida vintage store. The scarf had just been hanging around and it was nice to finally put it to use. It was too short to tie but I found that a double twist stays in place rather well.

Of course, if I can include a vintage Rodo bag, I will. As you may know by now, I just really like many of the designs and the quality and Rodo puts into their bags.

shoes — **New flats (Candies) from Kohls and a vintage bracelet in three dimensional pink squares. The bracelet design reminds me of the fifties, but I doubt if it could be that old.**

lounging — **Laying down on the job! I put together this small conversational area this summer. The tables are actually plant stands so they do double duty when we bring plants in for the winter.**

stillliferomantic — **Still Life-Pink and blue pattern and color play**

Have you heard of Bijou Graphique jewelry? I am a bird watcher from way back (middle school) and when I found this necklace at The Plaza Art Fair a few years back, I was in love. The details are wonderfully varied and delicate.

303N_1__49860.1417200158.1280.1280 — **Gold Finch on a Bowl of Cherries-necklace ($80 today).**

The Painted Accessory

This mani plays out the romantic theme. My base coat is Devious Nature by Cult Nails‘ (closed shop and link is to eBay). A good dupe for Devious Nature would be Zoya’s Nana). My top coat is Like Love by Lynderella.

I mentioned that two navy tops found their way home with me from Goodwill. The second one was used for my 4th of July outfit. The scarf came from a late summer trip to the Abraham Lincoln Museum in Springfield, Illinois last year. The shoes are Vans (from Amazon).

And It’s Time For This Month’s 2nd Loved 1st Friday Linkup!

Any post on a blog, Instagram, Facebook or the like can linkup to this style celebration. If you can copy and paste the URL in the Linky box, you are good to go!

If you have never participated in a linkup before, no fear. Go to Linkup 101 guide that is found on my 2^nd Loved 1^st Friday linkup page (also found at the top in the tab section).

The party starts today and stays open for the whole month. You can add as many links as you want and they can be from Instagram, Facebook or your blog. Hop around to see what other participants are up to. It makes for more fun! If you have any questions about the linkup, ask away.

Here’s some of the lovely ladies who contributed to the linkup last month. To be featured in my collage, you just need to state what your found 2nd Loved in your style. Remember, it just needs to be one item.

Starting top left is Jodie of Jodie’s Touch of Style. Jodie linked up with a fantastic find of a pair of Stuart Weitzman shoes. Maggie of Thriftshop Fashionista shoes us her 100% three piece thriftedstyle. Jess of Elegantly Dressed and Stylish has a talent for finding incredible styles by Anthropologie on Poshmark and her trench she found is amazing. Penny of Frugal Fashion Shopper hats and styles. Penny just moved to Brighton and I can’t wait to see her adventures there. Thank you ladies.

So without further ado, let’s get this party started!

Just click the frog below to link up and join the fun!

And have a great week and I will see you again with my usual Sunday post.

Until next time, Happy Styling!

Michael gets credit as the photographer for today’s post .

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